I am convinced that the more you fail in life, the better chances you have to learn from your mistakes and become successful. In fact, the way I see failure is that we are always getting it right even when it appears we have made a mistake or failed. It leads to a greater understanding and wisdom for us to overcome our obstacles and have a better and brighter future. There for I consider failure a better teacher than success.
Some of my most terrifying memories involve my failure in many things. It does not mean I am not successful in life. I remember how I got very upset when I was eliminated from the national country championships when I was eleven. That day I thought the sky will fall on me because I was not rewarded after a long time of preparations. I was so disappointed that I deserted workout for a period of time. But when I thought about it, it seemed foolish to me and I said to my self: I like running, and if I try harder with more discipline, I can grow better and stronger. Following this simple concept, I was able to become number one in my team, and I have been selected to represen
Failures are not random things. We make them we cause them. This means we can learn ways to avoid them in the future and become more aware of our mistakes. In addition, it is like a detour, just like taking a new path that lead to a place different from your initial destination. But along the way, you acquire more useful hints to help you find your path. This expression reminded me of my lost to my biggest rival in tae kwon-do in the finals when I was eighteen. And as I am writing this, my muscles still ache from my failure today to qualify for the body building championship. I thought I was the best and no one could beat me, but I was wrong. I lost because I did not consider failure as it should be, I did not think some body else could take the title from me. Moreover, I did not consider my loss a failure because I managed to learn how to be patient and to control my anger and my temper.
Failure is not a single event because we do not fail overnight. It is the result of an accumulation of poor thinking and choices we make every single day of our live. My best friend Tom is thirty five year