No matter which one it is, a spiritual infidelity or an actual infidelity, it has a potential harmfulness to the family that already exists. First of all, the one who loves somebody outside the marriage will injure his or her partner¡¯s feeling. The basic factor for the couple is trust. But when the situation happens, it is impossible for the people who did the infidelity to tell the truth. And if faith has disappeared gradually between the partners, the love will also lose its colour quickly.

Love maybe does not need any reasons, but fading of love do need some reasons, perhaps due to the shortage of mystery, the lack of passion, the poor financial conditions, or the incompatible personalities. No matter what reason it is, the married people should balance their families and their affections when they face the family crisis. If it is only a spiritual love, and they find that it is no more important than their spouses, children, and social effects, it is better to keep the beautiful affections in their hearts, care much more about their families, and never have infidelity any more. Only in this way could their marriage move forward, not just to where it had been, but to where they wanted it to be.

Another problem faced by the people who have done infidelity is the bad influence on their children¡¯s growth. Children especially the young children learn the views of life and value firstly from their parents. No matter which part of their parents has an unfaithful behaviour, it will deeply hurt the children, and may cause their distrust of the world as well as the true love. When these children grow up, becoming fathers or mothers, sometimes, they will mimic the actions of their parents subconsciously, and then affect their children. The vicious circle will continue and continue, which definitely damage the human social civilization.

Besides, people consider infidelity as the most unpardonable thing because it disobeys the morality of human society. Marriage includes not only love, but also responsibility, trust and courage.

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