Firstly, the refugee understood human nature. He knew the hostess would not be understood of his past experiences before he told his story. And the refugee even informed the hostess that she would not understand him. ¡§Each of us has his own circle of experience into which no one else can enter.¡¨(172) ¡§It will not be actuality-a living actuality-because never in your life have you been, or will you be, in danger of th