A Look at Teasing Phenomenon in Merged Friendships
After five months of dating I decided to introduce my boyfriend to my parents. They had been asking to meet him for about three months but I was dreading the introduction for some reason. I couldn’t figure out what it was that was causing such anxiety because I really wanted them to meet each other. We arranged to have dinner and while sitting at the restaurant I realized why I was so hesitant; a night of teasing and perhaps in embarrassment was in store. As I suspected my parents shared details about my childhood that I hadn’t shared with my boyfriend yet. They all laughed about how “cute” I look in the morning when I first wake up. And when I tried to stop the conversations about me my giving my step-mother a stern look that said, “that’s enough” they all teased me about that as well. For some reason this occasion of teasing did not leave my memory very easily. Since that evening I began to see this phenomenon in other relationships, in televisions, movies, and in print media. This phenomenon is present in all types merged friendships I am propelled to ask “Why do two people meeting for the first time tease the friend who has introduced them?” Initially I believe two different factors motivate
7. Have you ever been teased by two friends that you have introduced or teased the person who has just introduced you to another person? Tell me about it. Teasing – From Robin Kowalski’s Behaving Badly (178) the original French translation of the word meant to “feed a fire with fuel”, a more current definition of the word is “a personal communication directed by an agent toward a target that includes three components: aggression, humor, and ambiguity” I then asked my father about the incident with my boyfriend, Nick, at the restaurant and he told me that he was teasing me so I would lighten up, and because it was a way of trying to figure out “What Nick’s intentions are?” I asked how he figured that out through teasing and he told me it gave an opportunity for him to find out how well Nick treated me. My dad mentioned a part of the incident I forgot and that was the way Nick would change the subject we he saw I was getting uncomfortable. 6. What type of social groups do you prefer ?
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