Unfaithful
Do we all learn from the mistakes of our parents? Or do we follow down the same path of the wrong doing as our parents did? What if your parents were unfaithful to each other? Would you learn to be faithful, not wanting to be like them? Or would you see what they do and feel you must do the same? The answer to these questions can have more then one side to them. My thoughts are from my experiences of an unfaithful parent. If you have an unfaithful parent you are more than likely going to be unfaithful yourself. Whether it is in a relationship or in a marriage, there is a good chance that the relationship will not last. You would even think by watching television, and movies such as “Unfaithful,” that any person, no matter the age, would not want to be a cheater. Even watching that movie myself, I thought I would and never could be unfaithful. I guess I thought wrong. I still don’t think people realize that he or she will always be considered unfaithful. When I was in 10th grade I found out that my mother was and had been cheating on my father. David, who is my father, is one of the most caring, sensitive, handsome fathers and husbands anyone could ever have. His response to my mother Rose, who
So you see going through something hurtful once, then twice does not mean you won’t end up doing it yourself. By knowing what my mother had done and watching the movie unfaithful I became a cheater. I told myself that I would never cheat on someone I loved and I ended up doing it. I was so hurt and destroyed by my mother, that I knew exactly what Steve was feeling the day he found out. My point about having a parent who cheated and then a child who would cheat, I think proven. I had a parent who was very unfaithful and I became a person who was unfaithfulness. I followed in my mothers footsteps, even though they are the ugliest footsteps to want to follow. My mother did not even learn from her mistake. So if my memory serves me right I should make the same mistake again. I will not let this happen to me. I will make sure that my history does not repeat itself. Have you ever seen the movie “Unfaithful”? I never knew how much one person could cry just by watching a movie. The main character in the movie was cheating on her husband and he eventually found out. He seemed to be okay with what she had done and wanted to work things out with her. Throughout the whole movie, all I could think about was my parents and what my mother had done. Once again I told myself that I would and could not cheat and hurt someone who I loved. Through the movie I cried my brains out. I watched the movie with my boyfriend who is now my ex-boyfriend. He was very supportive through the whole movie. He knew how sensitive I was about the subject of cheating. I would just keep repeating to him that I would never do that to him. He would say, “I know you to well; I know that you could never do that to me.” After the movie was over I never wanted to see it again. I did not even want to be in the same room as the video tape. The
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