If I were to give a reason to be independent, it must be the seeking of freedom. For most young people, they often call out for personal privacy and unconstrained space. But it can’t be perfect if they still live in their parents’ place, because they never stop watching our behavior. In Bread Giver, Sara was desperate to be alone. She was tiring for the notice form her family. “A separate door to myself, a door to shut out all the noises of the world, … I must have this room with the shut door!” For those people I had interviewed, there were also three of them have the same kind of reason for leaving home. Philip said, “ Parents always interfere with our personal life unconsciously. If I were to go independent, I should move out away from my parents, away from all kinds of ec

The life of being economic independence was double-faced. There could be loneliness or helpless, but it’s also the grandest dream for all young people who’s seeking for fun and entertainment. Philip usually throws a house party at his apartment every Friday, people go to his place revel and drink till morning. Uncontrolled liberty was the best part of living alone. Usually, the entertainments for independent people are much more abundant than the people which live with families. He said, “It was like heaven when your parents were not right next to you. I could party till next morning if I still live in my parent’s house.” For many young people, the lives of being independence sometimes give them a reason to relax more. But it’s not absolute, because some of the independent young spend most of their time on work and school, just like Flora. The only entertainment for her is to have a cup of coffee or tea, put everything behind the head, and simple enjoy the time—the time they don’t have to worry about anything.

After all the pain and difficulty, the life of being independent is still beautiful and significant. You will be ceaselessly learned a lot useful experience, and find the pleasure in the process. David said, “I was so glad I made that choice to move out. The satisfactions after every success are the most happiness in the world.” Independence was the sign that show people’s endeavor, advance and success. And it’s also a sign that record people’s tear, laugher and the entire precious transit from time to time. the process of being independent seems like a important course to teach you how to be a real person to live in this world. And the independence is the diploma that proves you graduated from the life college.

onomic supports.” Young adults are usually devoid of endurance. Parents or other relatives’ nagging rebuke often enrage them, thus force them leaving home to pursue their liberty. Because young adult thought they were grown up, and ready to feed themselves.

Notwithstanding the friends circle changed, but it’s still better than none. For those people who are independent from their family, friends is really important. All interviewees had told me about their loneliness. “Home, sweet home,” says Rose, “when I was live in there, I always want to escape. But when I’m out of there alone, I’m just staring miss it.” She told me that any time she go back to her room, there ‘s not a sign of human being. When all the friends left, she could only felt the cold and solitude, because the sense of security and safety are always around us when we lived at home. “I confess sometimes I want to go home,” says Philip, “I even miss my mom’s preaching when I sat in my room with nobody beside.” I believe that everyone will felt lonely when they only live by him or herself. If it only for a short-term’s life that might be a nice unconstrained vacation, but long-term’s lonely life won’t be

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