It is clear that the concept itself is controversial. Some people find it cold and unromantic to choose your lifelong partner using this method. Most young people tend to believe that the only way to choose a mate is to date until you fall in love plan a wedding and get married. This point of view is not very realistic if we define marriage as a lifelong commitment. If the young marriage is based on love alone the soon to be adults may grow together based on other similarities or goals they have identified, or may grow apart because they have found nothing else to keep them together (Kapadia 50). It is safe to say that marriages will have a better chance for success in the love concept if there are countless qualiti

The amazing thing is that statistics prove that arranged marriages are no less happy, and even more stable, than so-called love marriages young couples in the West enter into. The arranged marriage has adjusted to modernization. Today couples, depending on how liberal their parents are, meet on their own either at home, or in a restaurant, before deciding to commit. Whether it is arranged marriages or courtship marriage, people seek perfect husbands and perfect wives. A perfect husband or a perfect wife is a myth (Singer 250). As there is no perfect wife or perfect husband, there is no perfect marriage either. Marriage is something you have to work at all the time, once you are married, it doesn't matter how you got together. You have to work to make it work. Success of marriage is in mutual trust, understanding, acceptance, and also in mutual love and respect (Singer 300).

es in common with your future partner (Kapadia 53).

Ahmad, Imtiaz, ed. Family, Kinship and Marriage Among Muslims in India. Manohar: Jawaharlal Nehru University Press, 1976.

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