Why do parents always feel that their word has God's mandate in heaven? Do they somehow ignore the imperfections that only their close friends and family see? Honestly they feel that they are infalible when you are young and apparently your ideas cannot possibly ever be correct. Some people believe that our imperfections can be traced back to our parents or whoever you are raised by. Not only do we copy some of their flaws, we develop almost counter-flaws by copying the extreme opposite.
"Monkey see, monkey do." While we are not monkeys they are our close relatives in a way. I feel we live this way as well by seeing something we like and copying or adapting it for ourselves. This is how trends are set, essentially by a large group of posers. However, sometimes we adapt characteristics from our parents because that's the only situation we have seen. For example, if I was raised by parents that never showed any affection, I might become an emotionless beast. Then I most likely would either never get married or marry someone with the same affliction. The cycle would then continue until somehow it is broken by either intense love or our family discontinues itself, essentially no children.
Conversely, sometimes instead of adapting certain qualities that we see, we can develop the exact opposite, sometimes to an extreme. This can also create disturbances in a person's personality or social interaction. For example, if I was raised in a house where my parents are always yelling at me and telling me I'm worthless I could potentially develop a low self-esteem. This however, might be changed when I have children because I didn't like being treated that way so I make a conscious effort to be different. But since that's how I was raised I might end up raising my children that way because I don't know any other way to raise them.
These problems in parent raising makes it difficult to raise a child without our flaws.
Parenting directly affects how a child will function in society. ... The problem is these kinds of parents are not demanding enough. ... The last kind of parenting is uninvolved parents. ... The consequences of uninvolved parents are endless. ... Some parents fully understand but unfortunately many do not. ...
Deportation of one or both parents creates many problems for the children involved. The loss of a parent usually causes a loss of income. ... " The parents came to escape drug lords, rape, gangs, or poverty. ... Children of illegal immigrant parents usually have working parents and live in poverty (Wight et al.). ... ICE does not let detained parents go to welfare custody hearings. ...
The job being a parent is difficult and frustrating. Being a parent isn't a very easy job. ... Our parents have a role in decision making. ... The fact is, good parenting is easier in the long run than bad parenting. Good parenting is like good car repair. ...
Parenting styles are influenced by cultural and society standards, the parents" economic position, childhood, and character, and the characteristics of the child. ... Being an admirable competent parent requires consistent responsive parenting. ... An incompetent parent may be neglectful of there children. Some situations that lead to ineffective parenting may be that parents have too much work or stress. ... Lack of education about what is needed to be a consistent responsive parent may also cause ineffective parenting. ...
A good parent also lets them talk and doesn't talk back. ... Being a good parent is a hard task, and is achieved through love. ... Mike and Carol Brady are the perfect parents, and that's how many people want to be to their children, but the thing is there is no such thing as a perfect parent. There are no perfect parents, but there are good ones. ... Good parents are generalized to have love for their child, respect, support and many other good qualities needed in order to be a good parent. ...
Parents are charged with the responsibility of raising their children. ... When one is a parent that is the responsibility one carries. ... The child needs the mature decision from their parents. ... That is where a parent steps in. ... The parent would not only be improving the child's positive environment; but also creating a bond between the hero (parent) and the child. ...
Parenting During the last two weeks we have had many discussions about parenting. We also have had some serious arguments concerning parenting. ... Do you let your sixteen year old daughter go on Spring Break with a parent, or even let them go at all? ... I know it is cool when you"re in high school to see your friend's parents drinking with you and your friends. ... I think it is fine to drink if you choose to when you are twenty-one with or around your parents, but I think the child feels like they can do what they want whenever they want and it just makes it harder for the pare...
If you are a birth parent your child must come first. If you are an adopted parent your child must come first. ... The second similaritie is that you"re a parent either way, wether you give birth or if you adopt you are still legally a parent. ... Secondly, as an birth parent you don't get screened before getting pregnant. ... The process to become an adopted parent could be quite lenghthy. ...
