I was raised to be a girly girl. I didn’t climb trees, I didn’t fight boys, I never learned to ride a bicycle because I got driven everywhere I wanted to go. Frankly, I was basically scared of boys through about eighth grade. I was afraid of the smallest iota of a possibility of rejection. This meant that most of the energy that would have gone towards actually pursing the boys I had crushes on was spent on psychoanalyzing my friends.
Between the ages of 5 and thirteen I probably had a total of 2 male