Walking through the hallways of Eleanor Roosevelt High School freshman year was somewhat intimidating. Being incredibly shy, I was one of the people being pushed aside so the older, bigger students could pass through. I entered high school with the mentality that the older the student is, the more respect and attention they “deserve.” Therefore freshman were at the very bottom of the list, including myself. All through elementary and middle school the students behaved like this, not associating with anyone younger or older than themselves. It took me most of my first year of high school to gain enough confidence to become extroverted due to my realization that all these ideas I had in my mind about the with seniority comes superiority did not exist at Roosevelt.
On the very first day of school, a few seniors joined my friends and me at lunch. They offered advice and encouragement about high school, in a manner that never once made me feel like an ignorant freshman. The whole time I was expecting them to steal our lunch money or some other ridiculous juvenile prank that movies want
Recently I had a male friend make a racist comment that related to a friend of mine that he is not fond of. I immediately defended her since she was not there to do it herself. There was a large crowd of his friends around, but I stood up for my friend anyway. A couple years ago I would have been too frightened to vindicate her, with no one there to support me. Now I know that I should stand up for what is right, even if I am standing alone. If people ridicule me for this, obviously they are not worth being friends with in the first place. I have enough confidence in myself to not be bothered if every single person I know does not particularly like me.
Now when I walk the hallways of Roosevelt I do not allow myself to be rammed into the walls and other people, but at the same time I do not shove other students out of the way. I will go out of my way to assist underclassmen in need, whether concerns their locker or their books sprawled about the floor. My confidence enables me to approach people I do not know, and I know this a valuable quality I possess that will help me throughout