Jewish faith sets down many laws by which one must live. These laws range from the consumption of kosher foods all the way to whom one can associate with, and what types of relationships one can foster with others. These laws can be very confusing, as the face of the modern Jew is not the same as the Jew of older times. The American Jew especially comes into focus here, for in America there has been such a blending that it is very hard for a Jew to live up to the torah and associate what only those proscribed. This, compounded with the increasing division of the Mishnah and the Gemara, can genuinely confuse. When can one help others? From whom