“There is scarcely anything more difficult than to love one another. That it is work, day labor, day labor, God knows there is no other word for it (Rilke). A encountered by Rainer Mana Rilke in the essay “On Love”. Love can’t be taken for granted; it is a strong responsibility that has to be worked at, even if it runs theory where conflicts can occur during the process of a loving relationship was smoothly.