In Amy Tan’s “Two Kinds,” Amy’s relationship with her mother exemplifies the complexity of traditional values which shadowed first and second generation Chinese immigrants living in the US. Both Amy and her mother have underlining identity conflicts within themselves as well as with each other. These discrepancies in their relationship are the outcome of the cultural clash they inevitably experienced as Asians in America. Even though Amy’s mother views herself as American and propounds American tradition, she still views the world around her through a rather Asian and immigrant perspective. The mother lost everything dearest to her in China and in 1949 moving to America with no regret since she believed “there were so many ways for things to get better.” Amy was the variable of her mother’s experiment which enforced typical Ame
However, Amy’s relationship with her mother is even more complicated because even though the mother portrays to be assimilated in American society, her culture –her Asian traditions – are still present in her conceptual outlook on life. Amy is neither American nor Chinese and really struggles to find her real identity mainly because of her mother’s influence. However, Amy’s embarrassing performance became proof to her that her mother is just wrong: “And then I decided. I didn’t have to do what my mother said anymore. I wasn’t her slave. This wasn’t China. I had listened to her before and look what happened. She was the stupid one.” Standing up to her mother, Amy “felt stronger” and finally found her true self.
In general, Amy’s mother yearned to American and wanted Amy to be a Chinese Shirley Temple. She even adopted the racist Americ