Therefore, abuse not only effects the victim, yet is also negatively disrupts the lives of each member of the family. ... Society often condemns the victim by stating "look at what she was wearing- or "what was she doing out late at night?... Society puts the blame on the victim instead of the perpetrator who is experiencing psychological problems by assaulting the victim. ... Victim's who have been raped often have their identities and personal unique qualities looked over, while being referred to instead in negative ways by society. ... The victim feels humiliated and embarrassed whe...