The greatest legal advantage to gay marriages are primarily in the states of .
            
Hawaii, Maine, New Jersey and California, where couples can specifically define .
            
the most critical decisions in any married couples' life.  The legal precedents and .
            
laws in these states specifically support what many consider to be the "pros" or .
            
advantages of gay marriage, and these include the legal right to have children, .
            
jointing owning property or splitting it up, inheritance and death taxes, transfer .
            
taxes, government benefits, immigration, and the ability to define wills and .
            
testaments for each other as primary beneficiaries.  In addition to all these .
            
advantages is also the advantage of being able to obtain healthcare from an .
            
employers' HMO or PPO organization, especially in the states mentioned in this .
            
article. .
            
Starting with one of the most sought-after advantages of a gay marriage, the .
            
legal right to have children, gay marriage advocates state that due to the stronger .
            
focus on egalitarian values and shared work in gay householders, children grow .
            
up well-adjusted than would otherwise be the case (Lindsay, Perlesz, Brown, .
            
McNair, et al., 2006). .
            
Second, there is the right to have community property in the states that support .
            
gay marriage, including the protection of rights specifically defining joint .
            
ownership and dissolution of marriages including the distribution of assets.  This .
            
is a critical point as in many other states that do not support gay marriage, the .
            
dissolution of a same-sex union often is one that is contentious and marked by .
            
extensive lawsuits over assets.  From this perspective the issue of how to best .
            
manage the financial considerations of a gay relationships favors a gay marriage .
            
being intact, obtained from one of the states mentioned that support them (Black, .
            
Sanders, Taylor, 2007).  .
            
There are also several advantages from a tax standpoint as well.  First the .
            
inclusion of inheritance and death taxes, transfer taxes and government benefits .