When Juliet did not accept her father's plans to marry Paris, he became furious and said,.
"Hang thee, young baggage! Disobedient wretch! I tell thee what, get thee to church o"Thusday, Or never after look me in the face.".
This resulted in Juliet having to take desperate measures to avoid marrying Paris. If Juliet's parents had listened and tried to understand their daughter, they would've realised she was in love with Romeo. When the Capulet family found out about Tybalt's death, they were totally unaware that Juliet was not grieving over Tybalt, but she was grieving over her husband's banishment. The parent's unawareness of their daughter's feelings and actions resulted in Juliet's secret marriage and risky plans to escape from marrying Paris. They never knew that Romeo was Juliet's husband and they never knew he came to her house the night of Tybalt's death. Juliet could not tell her parents of her marriage because Romeo was a Montague, which illustrates why the feud was the most responsible for the tragedy of Romeo and Juliet.
Friar Lawrence's good intentions to make peace, and to use love to conquer hate is partly responsible for the tragedy of Romeo and Juliet. When Friar agrees to marry Romeo and Juliet and says,.
"For this alliance may so happy prove, To turn you households" rancour to pure love,".
his plans go drastically wrong. The secret marriage doesn't help the feud, but only results in the Friar having to make some risky decisions about the fate of Romeo and Juliet. His plan for Juliet to take the poison and the letters to be sent to Romeo ends up being fatal. If the Friar had not shown Juliet the poison then Romeo would never had come back to Verona to kill himself. Friar Lawrence's good intention to make peace by using love to conquer hate also illustrates that the feud was the most responsible for the tragedy of Romeo and Juliet. If the feud had not existed then there would've been no need for Friar to marry Romeo and Juliet in secret and to bring peace to the two households.
Who was to blame for Romeo and Juliet's deaths? ... You could blame Romeo and Juliet for their own deaths. ... Friar Laurence believes that Romeo does not truly love Juliet but is physically attracted. ... After Capulet's outburst at Juliet, Juliet turns to her mother and says: " O sweet mother cast me not away!" Juliet's mother replies with: "Talk not to me for I have done with thee". ...
