ii.148), Hamlet's fury is displayed as he generalizes that not only is his mother is weak, but women in general are helpless and feeble. Here the queen does not care whether her own son is hurt by her marriage. As a woman in the play she allowed Claudius to instill his views in her and just like Ophelia she subdues her feelings and allows a man (Claudius) to make his opinion and feelings hers. Saying "Let me be cruel, not unnatural: I will speak daggers to her, but use none." (Act 3, Scene 2, lines 387-388), Hamlet is annoyed with his mother, but cares about her too much to physically hurt her. Although he scolds her often, he loves her just the same. His love for her is first expressed without words when he stays in Denmark instead of returning to college simply because she asks him to. Hamlet's strong love for his mother is a cause for the events in the end of the play. It is not evident whether Hamlet would or would not have killed Claudius that day if his mother hadn't died, but whatever Hamlet's plan was, it was discarded in the instant he discovered Gertrude poisoned. Crying as he stabs Claudius with the poisoned sword and then forces the rest of the poisoned drink down his throat, "Here, thou incestuous, murderous, damned Dane, Drink off this potion: is thy union here? Follow my mother"(V.ii.333-335), Hamlet's sanity snaps and all of his pain, anger, and grief are let loose because Claudius has just killed his mother, his love and his best friend. .
Throughout the play, Hamlet is often times very rude towards Ophelia. Telling Laertes, "He hath, my lord, of late made tenders of his affection to me"(I.iii.104-105), Ophelia believes their love and relationship is real, but her young age and her fragile state of mind cause her to be used and misled. Hamlet seduces her and makes love to her, but when he starts his quest for revenge on Claudius, his madness takes over and causes him to be rude to her.
