Various stanzas are not of uniform length. This method is used to represent the mood and feelings in the verse. By not strictly adhering to a form, Eliot allows the reader to infer that perhaps this tragic situation should not be taken so seriously. This irregularity of form could also be a way to remind the reader that these are the thoughts of a man. This is Prufrock's interior monologue and as it is clear that he is not in the soundest of mindframes it would make sense that this irregularity would be present. His thoughts lead to ambiguity such as at the start of the poem. "There you go then, you and I," This could be referring to Prufrock and himself, or Prufrock and his lover. It seems, however, that it is indeed himself he is addressing which again reminds the reader to remain light-hearted.
J. Alfred Prufrock's self esteem affects his love life greatly. The woman he is in love with is younger than he is and this distresses him. He does not believe that younger women could possibly accept him or find him attractive. Expressing any kind of affection to her is awkward and difficult. Prufrock knows what he must say but cannot bring himself to say it. "Should I, after tea and cakes and ices,/ Have the strength to force the moment to it's crisis. The playful rhyme makes it so difficult for the reader to take his plight seriously. This also becomes humorous as Prufrock does just that. He wishes greatly to express his affection but it becomes suppressed within him. He compares himself to Lazarus who was an aged man restored to life by Jesus. He feels that it will take a miracle to make him feel young again. Prufrock sees his age as the end of his romantic zeal. These dilemmas are devastating to him; they haunt him and overwhelm him. He strives to achieve something that is impossible for him to attain. The reader finds humor in the torment that Prufrock brings onto himself as he struggles to capture something he would be much happier without.