pag). It is quite possible that children will misbehave for the fact of being angry at parents (ASupporting Stepfamilies@ n. pag.). Sometimes children feel like they must be disloyal to the parents because they want the parents to feel guilty (Kato n. pag.). Also, influencing the children can make them feel even more guilty than they already did. Very often some signs of confusion goes along with the guilt (Kato n. pag.). The children sometimes get a feeling of unworthiness and this may make them behave different (ASupporting Stepfamilies@ n. pag). Some other types of guilt are worrying about how the other parent feels and worrying about how the parent will react to certain things (Kato n. pag.). Many times just not understanding will make the child feel guilty (Interview n. pag. ). .
Children can also become extremely angry from all the things that can come from a divorce. They will become angry because of parents not telling them what is going on. The children will also feel very angry about the losses they have experienced because they had no input about what is going on (*Supporting Stepfamilies@ n.pag). AA child may be feeling frustration, sadness, fear, and jealousy as well as confusion these feelings can result in anger@(ASupporting Stepfamilies@ n.pag). Also, many times children are not given any consideration of their feelings about what is going on (Kato n. pag. ). A Children are often angry about the losses they have experienced because they had no input about decisions that were made@ (ASupporting Stepfamilies@ n. pag. ). Also, moving away from family, friends, and familiar things. It is possible for the children to become angry for the non-custodial parent not spending enough time with them (ASupporting Stepfamilies@ n. pag. ).
Loyalty is another big issue for many children. The children may feel guilty for being with on parent or the other because they blame one of the parents. They may not be sure that they will enjoy being with the other parent ( Dreger n.