"Someone should of taken us out of that home-(2). "But in those early years, 1959-63, there were no women's shelters, no rape crisis centers. Families just endured or split apart-(2). Eventually she told a family member who informed Dorothy's mother about the abuse. She soon put an end to Dorothy's suffering and abuse.
As time went on Dorothy grew through her childhood stages and became the first in her family to graduate high school. That was not the end of the road for her, at 18 years of age she left home on her own in search of a college education. She went on a National Merit to Florida.
Presbyterian College now known as Eckerd College. She received her Bachelors degree and went on to receive her masters from the New School of Social Research in New York City. While in Florida she was living in a lesbian-femininst collective in Tallahassee. Previously she had burned everything she had ever written "I've been writing most of my life, but until I was twenty-four years old I burned everything I ever wrote .letters, journals, everything-(7). The women she lived with in the lesbian-feminist collective found out that she had burned everything,.
They stopped me, long enough to make me think about what I was doing, about what it was I was afraid of and what I needed to make me feel safe enough to write and not burn what I wrote. They asked me to just wait a while, to keep in mind that I could always burn everything later ( 7).
She decided to wait a while and see how things went because she realized she could just burn everything later; why not see where it takes her?.
For a day, a week, a month, then a year, I made myself wait a little while to burn my stories. Now it is twenty-three years later and I have more than twenty years of journals, six books written and more working. The women that stopped me that.
day in 1973 helped me to realize that I did not have to destroy everything, that I could write things down and not be endangered by telling my stories.