This is also shown through characters similar to Mrs Erlynne, such as Lady Bracknell from "The Importance of Being Ernest". Through these characters, it proves that Oscar Wilde is aware of the potentiality of women in society. Although, Wilde presents Mrs Erlynne as intelligent, strong and independent, he has made her deceiving, wicked and manipulative. .
"Lord Windermere : [In a low voice.] It was terribly rash of you to come!.
Mrs Erlynne : [Smiling.] The wisest thing I ever did in my life. And, by the way, you must pay me a good deal of attention this evening. I am afraid of the women. You must introduce me to some of them. The men I can always manage. How do you do, Lord Augustus? You have quite neglected me lately. I have not seen you since yesterday. I am afraid you're faithless. Every one told me so.".
Wilde portrays a character who is valued for her strength and independence, however for these same reasons she is ostracized from the community. It shows the extent of society's double standards and hypocrisies. It is both unusual and comforting that Oscar Wilde can present a very self-governing female character, despite that he has presented her embodying very negative characteristics as well. By that token she maintains a very important characteristic of self-sacrifice. This act of self-sacrifice results in the necessity to leave her daughter, losing what she had just learnt to value. Clearly, depicting Wilde's pessimistic outlook on life, although the sacrifice remained powerful, in turn Mrs Erlynne who had done good for her daughter was inevitably punished. Wilde, of course never preaches for long, possibly showing that society will and may never come to any true realisation that Mrs Erlynne is a good person, notwithstanding her past. Or maybe he was preparing society for his "social mistakes". This play illustrates a status group mainly concerned with the admission of exclusion of people from its ranks.