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Lust


            
             Lust: an intense or unrestrained sexual craving. Love: to have intense feelings of tender affection and compassion for another. On paper, anyone can see the difference between love and lust, but when it comes to your mind and body, many people, especially young women, get the difference between these two, seemingly harmless words, jumbled up. So many young women go searching for what they believe to be love, and what they find, is sex. They search in many different places, with many different guys, but eventually they will come to realize that sex doesn't mean love, all they've found is lust. And once they have made this realization, it is not always easy for them to stop, and because of this many lose something very important to them along the way. "Lust," a short story by Susan Minot, shows just that, some young women hold a strong misconception of what love is and how to find it, and this error can lead to one truly poignant outcome.
             In this story, the narrator, who is away at boarding school, is describing all of the different guys she has been with. At first, it seems like she is bragging, but every once in a while she slips in comments like " The second a boy put his arm around me, I forgot about wanting to do anything else, which felt like a relief at first until it became like sinking into a muck (306)." This, and other comments like, "You make out the dim shape of windows and feel yourself become a cave, filled absolutely with air, or with a sadness that just wouldn't stop (306)" show that there are feelings there of regret and sadness, of which, the narrator isn't totally willing to admit to herself. She obviously feels good about what she is doing at first, but after it's done and she realizes that the guy doesn't love her anymore than he did before they had sex, she feels sad and ashamed. You may ask, if she feels this way afterwards, then why does she continue this behavior? Its simple really, she is in search of love, and until she finds it she won't quit.


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