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The Ego And The Self


After some months, of course, the baby learns to identify many different people and things, and learns that it is "inside" its own body, looking out on the world. At the same time, the baby is learning how to manipulate the people and things on the outside to get the things it needs and wants. By the time the baby becomes a walking, talking individual, the basic concept of the ego as something separate from the rest of the world is almost completely developed. But what psychologists call identity is only beginning to develop at this point; as the child grows older, it comes to "identify" many different things as part of its own identity. Some of the elements that make up the growing identity are relationships to other people; ideas about itself and whether it is good or bad, stupid or smart, ugly or beautiful; a sense of worth or self-esteem based on what has been learned or done; and many other things. .
             From this viewpoint, I can see that the ego seems to be a narrower concept than the total identity, which always includes other people and things. The ego corresponds more to the idea of self-esteem and pride in the self, which explains why the popular slang use of the word ("he has a big ego," "egomaniac") is a concept of excessive self-love. This is not what the original concept of ego meant, either in philosophy or psychology, but the whole modern emphasis on "self-esteem" and self-love (as opposed to love from other people or from God) has changed the way we interpret this word.
             Looking at my own life and experiences, I can definitely see that the ego is like a small, interior nucleus of my personal identity. I cannot remember the first moments or even the first months of my life, so I suppose that during this period I didn't really have a strongly formed sense of identity. You could say that my ego was mixed up with that of my mother, and the whole world outside my body.


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