In most cases, the predator, (in this case Butler) just say they need to talk, and instead rape them! Third, when sex offenders violate their victims they leave them with no control. They are paralyzed from the afflictions which were forced upon them. They could be just normally talking one minute and then the offender starts raping them the next. " "He stood up, took me by the hand and led me to his bedroom and undressed me," she says. "He had sexual intercourse with me.I felt like there was no way to stop it, it was painful"" ("Betrayal"). He just invited her to his home and she was able to go, because she was told his roommate would be there and when she got there they just talked about her upcoming year in high school while they ate Chinese food like he said they would. He also promised they were just going to talk about the team and how she was doing in school. And they did just that - with the exception of about 5 minutes, when he then raped her, as said so above. This relationship started when she was going on her first trip away from home. The team was at a rest stop and she was just practicing some drills and she ignores something her coach said to her and he totally starts yelling, and swearing at her and told her she had to take the next bus home, but relented when she started to cry. You would think he was just a one of those once in a while traumatizing mean coaches, but not a sex offender! Little did everyone know, that after they got to the university where the team was staying, he called her to an empty lounge, and apologized. He said that the reason he got so mad at her was because it would make her a better player. " "Then all of a sudden he pulls me on top of him and kisses me"" ( "Betrayal" ). The young woman stated that over the next two years Butler kept initiating sex with her- - in his car, at his home, at her fathers home, in hotels, and in a train bathroom on a class trip to Germany.
