However, she makes it seem to everyone as though she is right where she wants to be in life, However, she doesn't know exactly what she wants. Even though Nora is loved and pampered by Torvald and has two wonderful kids; she hates the control that Torvald has over her. Nora ultimately has no freedom in this marriage, everything she does has to go through Torvald. This shows in some of the most pathetic ways; such as how Torvald gets mad and doesn't allow Nora to eat macaroons because they rot her teeth, or when Torvald makes her learn different dances and songs so that she can put on impressive shows for their guests. This is how marriages were in the 19th century; husbands controlled everything, and basically got whatever they wanted. .
Although everyone thinks that Nora is just a "silly girl" that is just pampered and sits home and doesn't know much about anything in the real world. We learn that this is not at all true when we find out that when Torvald was seriously ill and needed to go to Italy in order to be saved, Nora came up with $1200 in order to save Torvald. Nora borrowed the money from the bank by actually forging her father's signature on his will because she couldn't tell her very ill father that the money was to save her husband who was also ill. So she forged the signature and got $1200; and in turn she was to pay every dime of it back within a given period of time. However, Nora was definitely not allowed to be able to carry a job or work so she secretly saved up the money by copying papers when Torvald wasn't around and by spending only about half of the money he ever gave her. Still, because of Torvald's ways, Nora knew she wouldn't be able to tell Torvald the truth so she said that the money came from her father. Nora was forced to lie to him because he would not have of accepted anything from her because it would have been insulting to him. When an old school friend of Nora's named Kristine Linde asks Nora if she will ever tell him the truth Nora replied "Some day perhaps many years in time, when I"m no longer as pretty as I am now.