How easy it is for us to utter the word "I love you- where in fact we don't even know what it truly means. How quick it is for us to decide that we have fallen in-love with a person despite the fact that we don't completely understand what it really is to be "in-love-. It is rather bizarre how "love- becomes a part of our everyday language, an almost automatic expression that we say each day to our parents, our brothers and sisters, our friends, our girlfriends or boyfriends, without discerning what it essentially means. Quite strangely, I am personally alarmed by this reality. It scares me to think that love may eventually be simply a mechanical word that people mutter just because it is pleasing to our ears. It frightens me to conceive that love will sooner or later be reduced to a mere terminology that individuals exchange to each other when they feel like it. It was after reading the story of "The Snow Goose- that all these feelings were evoked. And it is in this light that I would wish to impart my personal thoughts, insights and reflections on love.
The story of Snow Goose has taught me that in loving, one must love a person for what he/she really is, and certainly not because of the values attached to the individual. For if we decide to love a person purely based on values, justifications and reasons, the person can be easily replaced by another individual who possesses the same characteristics and values that the person has affixed to the supposed "beloved-. Moreover, Snow Goose has showed me that one does not love a person because of what he/she can get out of the relationship but rather it is what one can give and offer to the other. As exemplified by Frith in the story, she still chose to love Rhayader despite his incongruous appearance. In spite the fact that there was nothing physically loveable about him, Frith was able to see through his goodness. And although there was nearly nothing she would gain out of her visits to the grotesque looking person, that fact did not stop her from continually journeying to his place.