1. You Just Don't Understand
... life, and Thanatos, an innate drive toward disintegration that Freud believed was directed against the self. If he was right, how is it that we all don't commit suicide? In part, it is because of a struggle between Thanatos and Eros, which, luckily for us, Eros usually wins. But it is also ... by their peers, and those who show weakness can feel like they have put themselves in a one-down position. And the main reason men don't tell anyone their feelings is because they feel they are giving away information that could be used against them. Often in Tannen's book Tannen tells ... of othe...
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