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Elizabeth Ashbridge


" When her husband said to her, "so I see your Quaker relations have made you one", she told him that wasn't true. She never told him, however, how she really felt and thus kept secret her Quaker leanings. Elizabeth was coming to a point where her beliefs were starting to coalesce and this passage illustrates how she was attempting to subtly defy her husband while trying to remain true to herself: .
             "When my Husband and he Used to be making their Diversion & reviling, I used to sit in Silence, but now and then an involuntary Sigh would break from me: at which he would tell my husband: "there, did not I tell you that your wife was a Quaker; & She will be a preacher.".
             However, this passage also illustrates the power her husband still had over her and the inward pain she inflicts upon herself spiritually by her denial: .
             "My Husband once in a Great rage came up to me & Shaking his hand over me, said, "you had better be hanged in that Day"-I then, Peter like, in a panick denied my being a Quaker, at which great horror seized upon me, which Continued near three Months: so that I again feared that by Denying the Lord that Bought me, the heavens were Shut against me; for great Darkness Surrounded, & I was again plunged into Despair.".
             She had no outlet to express her distress and received no comfort from her husband-if my husband perceived me weeping he would revile me for it." Elizabeth and her husband are engaged in a battle where there can be only one victor, given the times they lived in. I use the term "victor" loosely because there is no compromise that can ever be reached. Due to the patriarchal society in which they live, Elizabeth's husband must fight to the end using whatever tactics he can devise. He is feeling powerless and seeks the advice of a Priest who suggests removing her from Pennsylvania and "find some place where there was no Quakers; and then it would wear off.


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