His inability to act shows how he is not a fully integrated person in touch with his feelings. What makes the situation even worse is when Ophelia, Hamlets love, has to obey her father and not see Hamlet. This could not have come at a worse time because one of the few people he needs to support him in this difficult time is ignoring him. This creates more stress and brings him to the brink. When Hamlet starts to act crazy his parents bring in Hamlets childhood friends to spy on Hamlet and see what is the matter. He realizes they are spying on him and he is betrayed. Could be considered a positive step for Hamlet because it exposes him to a not so perfect world. He has taken his first step towards individuation, not willingly, but nevertheless he is on his way to becoming a complete person. Hamlet solves his problems.
Hamlet doesnt do things like normal people. Since he has never been in these situations he handles it very well for his first time. He never overcomes his object of his father, but then again he did not need to because he never compared himself to his father, only his uncle. Hamlet thinks of his uncle as not even half the man that his father was. Hamlet doesnt understand how his uncle could poses all the things his father had and be so inferior. Especially having his mother. As he progresses he realizes that his mother is human and that she has her faults, so she ceases to be an object. When Hamlet goes to talk to his mother after she summons him Hamlet vents his anger by telling her exactly what is on his mind. The queen is expecting to reprimand Hamlet on his play because it disturbed the king, but she will find out that she is at fault. Such an act that blurs the grace and blush of modesty, Calls virtue hypocrite, takes off the rose from the fair forehead of an innocent love, and sets a blister there, makes marriage vows as false as dicers oaths c(III. 4. 42-46). Hamlet points out specifically the queens sins, marrying her brother in law and not mourning long for a man she loved deeply.