At this party, the reader learns of Tom's social attitudes which are laced with racism and sexism. Also, Tom expects those around him to live up to a certain moral code in which he obviously can not. For instance, Tom simply treats Myrtle as an object of his desire. Tom's social attitude could be attributed to the incident in which Myrtle and Tom begin to argue about Daisy. Tom demands that Myrtle refrain from saying Daisy's name, but Myrtle does not comply, so Tom breaks her nose.
As the summer progresses, Nick finally receives an invitation to one of Gatsby's legendary parties. Nick attends and he meets Jordan Baker there. While at the party, Nick finally meets his neighbor, Jay Gatsby- who asks to speak to Jordan alone. After this party, Jordan reveals to Nick many facets of Gatsby. Gatsby reveals that he knew Daisy in Louisville in 1917 and is still in love with her. Instead of marriage, Gatsby had to fight in the war, but Daisy promised she would wait for him. But Daisy has a need to be loved, she married Tom, thus inspiring Gatsby to make millions of dollars through crime and lead an extravagant in an attempt to lure Daisy back to him.
Gatsby convinces Nick to invite Daisy over for tea, but Gatsby does not want her to know that he will be there. After an awkward meeting, Daisy and Gatsby rekindle their relationship and begin an affair in which Tom becomes suspicious of. Tom and Daisy attend one of Gatsby's lavish parties, but come away unimpressed making Gatsby feel he never should have pursued Daisy again. However, Gatsby is reassured of Daisy's love by Nick. .
Later, Daisy hosts a dinner party for Tom, Gatsby, Nick, and Jordan. Tom notices the passionate looks Gatsby sends to Daisy and becomes infuriated. He begins to ask Gatsby probing questions about his personal life then suggests that all five of them go into the city. Gatsby and Daisy drive in Tom's coupe, while Tom, Nick, and Jordan go in Gatsby's car.