Arnold states to Connie that he "knows all about [her]" (Oates 1229), and then proceeds to give her information about her family and friends. Such invested time and effort into a total stranger, as Arnold shows, is a characteristic commonly seen in stalkers. Friend also makes a brief mentioning of Connie's neighbor who recently died. "Hey, you know that old woman down the road?" (Oates 1235), he asks. This could be interpreted as an indirect implication that he is the one who has ended this woman's life. .
While some readers say that Arnold Friend is a serial killer, many critics have argued that he is representative of the Devil. Supporters of this argument claim that Arnold's disguise and distortion in appearance are reason to believe that he is indeed the grand deceiver, Satan. There are also a few subtle hints at Arnold being the Devil in his appearance, such as his tin can and rag stuffed boots being representative of cloven feet, and his gold jalopy representing a golden chariot. As has been mentioned, Arnold bears an extensive knowledge of Connie and her past. He is also able to see what is happening at the barbecue that Connie opted not to attend that day. Those who see Arnold as being Satan say that this is due to his supernatural capabilities. Also, despite Arnold's devious appearance, Connie finds herself drawn to him. "Connie liked the way he dressed" (Oates 1229) and in the end, leaves with him to meet her destiny. Like the Devil, Arnold has the ability to draw and ensnare whomever he chooses. .
Some say that Arnold Friend is really representative of Satan, while others have concluded that he is a psychopathic murderer; however, he is actually a collection of Connie's unconscious thoughts and desires come to life in "uncontrollable nightmare form" (Wegs 1253). The largest piece of evidence that supports this claim is the fact that throughout the whole span of Oates" story, Connie is the only character to pay any acknowledgment to Arnold Friend.
