losing control of your life is saddening. Gatsby is pathetic because.
he behaves like a child and he cannot handle adult situations like an.
adult. His childish demands show that he is a pathetic and immature human.
being. Jordan says, "I immediately suggested a luncheon in New York - and.
I thought he'd go mad: """I don't want to do anything out of the way!"".
he kept saying. ""I want to see her right next door."""(Fitzgerald 84) .
At Gatsby's reunion with Daisy at Nick's house, his nervousness shows his.
inability to handle adult situations. "Gatsby, pale as death, with his.
hands plunged like weights in his coat pockets, was standing in a puddle.
of water glaring tragically into my eyes."(Fitzgerald 91) A mature adult.
would be able to handle this situation without running around the outside.
of the house in the rain and then arriving at the front door as if it was.
just a coincidence. Even in the situation of the reunion with the long.
lost lover, a mature adult would be able to stay in the house and greet.
her at the door and not try to lie that he did not know that she was.
coming. Gatsby had calculated in his plan that he would make his grand.
entrance at the front door and sweep Daisy off of her feet. Gatsby's.
immaturity comes from the fact that he had to stick to the plan.
unconditionally and that he didn't have the ability to adapt to the.
situation and decide that it would be better to stay inside than to go out.
into the rain and get soaked. As Nick and Gatsby left Daisy to go into.
the kitchen, Gatsby said, "Oh, God! This is a terrible mistake, a.
terrible, terrible mistake."(Fitzgerald 92) Nick replied, "You're acting.
like a little boy."(Fitzgerald 93) Gatsby does act like a little boy by.
overreacting and exaggerating the situation. He overreacts and becomes.
terrified in such a way because the reunion is not going according to his.
plan, and in his immaturity, he has absolutely no idea how to cope with.