There are many aspects in a relationship that will make it strong and last long. For many, looks may seem to be important; but in the long run they prove not to be. There are three qualities that should be found in a good relationship. These three factors will never change no matter what kind of relationship one may be in or one may want. The three qualities are trust, commitment, and communication. If any of these qualities are missing, then the relationship will not last. However, these qualities should and will become easier if one has total respect for his/her significant other.
The first part of a successful relationship is trust. Trust is like the "I LOVE YOU" of a relationship. Trust to me means that, when one partner wants to go out for a night on the town with his/her friends, the other will have the confidence that they will not cheat or do anything to jeopardize the relationship. (Now this is a topic that many of us mess up fellas.) Take me for an example, over spring break, I recently went back home to Michigan and let's just say that I ran into my ex girlfriend. After I laid eyes on her, all of the old feelings came rushing back into my heart. So after we talked for an hour, I decided to take her out to eat and things just kind of took off from there. (Hold up ladies before you get all upset listen to the whole story.) So I come back home and of course talked to my girlfriend, and thinking nothing of it told her what I did over spring break. My words were not two seconds out of my mouth went I caught a glimpse of a snow globe heading straight for my head . I don"t want you to make the same mistake I did so here is some advise. Look at trust in this aspect, it allows the relationship to grow because there is not the constant worry of what the other person is doing. However, one has to be patient! Building trust in a relationship takes time and effort, while destroying it can be as simple as my personal example.
